Not fashion, but...

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Not fashion, but...
I value your opinions!
Just a quick question;
Is it acceptable to take a friend to a wedding as a guest???
The invitation was to me and Mr SP, but it's my boss' wedding and Mr SP can't make it now. It's only for the evening do and i don't really fancy going on my own as most others will be with partners - plus I have to drive their and i'm useless with directions so have the feeling i'll end up in the middle of nowhere if i try to find it alone!!
What do you think?? Is this not the done thing??
I was going to ask my boss if he minded me bringing a friend instead, and i'm sure he'll say yes, but i just wanted to get your opinions forst incase it's really out of order!
Thanks
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Re: Not fashion, but...
I think it depends on the type of wedding, to be honest - I can imagine that if it were a small cosy affair with everyone carefully hand-picked, bringing someone completely unknown along might be a bit off - I'd certainly object if it were me, but then I am an intolerant bad-tempered control-freak! If it's a big one though, then it might be OK. I have no idea about wedding etiquette though, so I'm probably all wrong!
g_k
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Over here people tend to have big weddings and an evening invitation usually would state 'and partner' for those attached or 'and guest' for those who are not. This can be of whatever sex you like, and whoever you like. There are also other people asked who don't get a written invitation and told to bring their friends as well. That would be pretty common practice so definitely not bad form in Ireland. It would be bad form for the daytime mind you. Might be different different places though.
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I'd say it's very bad form, sorry.
At my wedding we invited an old friend of my husband's plus his girlfriend, at the last minute she couldn't come so he turned up with a random friend instead, we were fairly annoyed about it afterwards - although on the day itself we were too busy to bother about it too much!
I wouldn't even ask. But then again I suppose it does depend very much on the event, if there are going to be like 700 people it might be different.
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i agree with g_k - it might be a big deal to the bride groom who may have as g_k said, planned the whole guest list very scrupulously. can you ask or do you feel it would put them on the spot?
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