I dont know what is going on and its driving me crazy. We’ve been talking for awhile and grown a like for each other when we talk online and on the phone he calls me baby and hunny and all these other nicknames too. We basically act like we’ve been bf/gf for quite sometime. Hes told me several times that he wants to be more then friends but just never asked yet. Last night i was over his house and we were watching movies and then we started making out. It was nice. Then we went out to the living room and his roommates came home one was already there the whole time. when we got to the living room he like didnt touch me or anything i sat on one side of the couch and he sat on the other. I was confused we just got done making out and now he didnt wanna touch me lol umm ok. So we sat watched tv with some of his roommates for a few hours then he went into his room so i followed not wanting to be in the living room without him and wanting to talk. We basically sat in silence for 30 mins while he was on the computer talking to some other girl. not that i mind him talking to other girls but if your talking to her online dont you think you could talk to me when im like 5 ft away from you. So he came over onto the bed and kissed me i was like wow cant believe i got another kiss. we still kinda sat in silence tho. so we began to talk some then he asked me when i was leaving i was like well if u want me to go ill go. hes like well i wanna watch the football game and i know u wouldnt wanna do that.. i just thought to myself last time i checked i liked watching football im on the couch every sunday watchin the game. so i got up put my sweatshirt on and put stuff back in my purse and stood there for a bit wondering if he would change his mind but nope walked toward the door to open it and turned around and asked him again i was like do u at all like me ur kicking me out to watch a freaking football game. He was like honestly i dont wanna lie to you i think you nice and a cool person but idk how i really feel… hmm ok i understand… not… so i walked to the door to leave said good night to his roommates then walked out the door thinking he would follow me out and either walk me down stairs to the door or out to my car to make sure i was safe since he lived with like 100 other people but the door just shut behind me… no call later to see if i made it home safe or anything… hmm ok anyone wanna help me know whats going on cause i am seriously confused on what he thinks of me and wants from me… u think if he didnt like me why would u make out with me and call me baby… idk help me out guys please
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this guy is a real jerk, it sounds to me like hes using u and he has othor girls he could go 2 instead of u... i dont think hes worth it... mabi he used to like u alot but he dosent want to ruin your relationship or mabi hes lost interest in you... you should ask him how he realy feels and see what he says
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It sounds like to me he just wants to have a lot of fun but isnt ready to have any committment maybe he just simply doesnt want it or maybe hes scared. He could be acting this way because hes scared and he doesnt mean to be like this he just is. You should definelty try talking to him and asking him up front whats going on but to be honest id say that if hes acting like this for much longer then you may wont to try an forget about it and find someone who does know what he wonts x
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he may really like you but isn't really ready to be all relationship-ish with you around his friends. Guys rag each other for stuff like that and not everyone can handle it well. He probably does like you but isn't ready to make a full commitment yet. You should just straight up ask him if he really likes you and is just nervous with you around his friends or if he just wants to keep things casual like they are now. You have every right to ask him and he is really the only one who can give you the answer that you are looking for.
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so i talked to him this is what he told me yesterday.... I'm sorry for how I treated you. I'm not a bad person and I didn't mean to be... and you have no idea how sorry I am. I'm felt lucky that you even talked to me today. I was ashamed of how I treated you. I had a million things going through my head and I didn't know what to say,I'm such an *******. I treated you like crap I'm so so so so so sorry hmmm....