ok so i was going out with this guy named sean for about a month and i think i might have loved him. then on our one month anniversary he dumped me. and he did it over texting!!!! i was so hurt and pissed off. a couple weeks later we became friends again and started to hang out normally. now were really good friends, more like best.
its good that were friends but i never thought that this would happen. one night me sean his friend gabe and my bestest friends tiffany were all hanging out. we got a lil buzzed so everything went crazy. i hooked up with gabe when i was trying to get back with sean and tiffany hooked up with sean while she was trying to get with gabe. me and gabe were making out, i almost lost it to him and he said he would never do anything to hurt me. ya we were a little drunk but who cares right??? we decided we both were even that night and let things go. the next morning they got together. i never thought that would happen. it turns out that they were going out before anything even happened that night and she never told me i had to here it from him! she broke up with him once cuz she felt bad doing that to me but i said she could be with him cuz i just wanted her to be happy. now shes been with him for over 2 months. i still like him and i think he might still like me back. but they’re in love and she doesnt know how i fell about it cuz i didnt tell her. i feel awful lieing to her but i cant hurt her. shes my best friend and i would do anything for her. what shold i do? did i have the right to let her and keep things to myself???
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Maybe you kept things to yourself and let him and her continue things because you were really moved on already? Maybe a part of you knew that it was not going to work between you two? I might not be right, but it is a possiblity or something to consider.
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Oh, that's a big one. First thing I sould say is, I'm sorry you are going through a hard time. Now time for my advice. You may be over him, but the way my bestie and I describe it is, you wanted him when you couldn't have him, twhen you could, the magic was gone. All the exitement, and the adventure was gone. Now that you cant have him again he is a mystery. It's all hormones, but it will make you feel alot better if you tell your firend. If you want them to break up, tell her you feel uncomfortable, but that you want her to be happy. But if you dont, then tell her, that you know you can get over it, and not to break up with him. That you were just telling her your feelings so you could get relief. It will help, and remember, you can have any guy you want. If you know that then the heart ache will go away. I know this will sound all mushy, but, "A heartache is just like a skinned kneee. It can, and won't hurt forever."
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Be truthful about your feelings. Just remember, that a true friendship is powerful and it hurts when you loose it. I betrayed my best friend and I felt horrible. I lost one of the best things that ever came into my life.