but it seems it was going fine till this one girl i talked to thought nothing of asking her for her email or anything and 2 days later she adds me i know im told time and time again not to give money to people but she asked me nicely about like me and her knowing each other for about 2 weeks.. she said to me that she thought i was good looking.. i kind of just went with it and she told me she liked me.. my problem is.. 2 days after that she started dating this other guy and i was pretty upset about that cuz i felt betrayed and lied to she said she was sorry but i dont think sorry cuts it.. and now she does’nt even talk to me.. and shes being a ***** about it.. its kind of funny tho… i only want to be accepted for me and where i live it seems i always run into judgmental people or girls who have no respect for them self.. i also have problems with talking to girls as well but im trying to work on that i did a good thing tho i did’nt rush anything :(
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Yeah, people kinda suck. Sorry man.
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im just getting tired of being used tho.. i hear im a sweet guy and all but im really starting to not beleave what people say to me the good things i never beleived the bad lol
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you are a good looking guy... and its a shame that this girl or any girl can treat you like this... i hope that you didnt give her that money... you seem like you have a huge heart... and its sad that things of sort have to happen... i wish you luck...
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meh its money.. i dont care about the money its the fact that i was used and i fell for it and i hate my self for letting that happen..
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dont hate yourself though.. she played you... how were you to know that she was playing you?? as for it happening.. use it as knowledge for the future... anyone that wants to be with you.. is not going to ask for money.. is not going to disrespect you.... they are going to like you for you.. with out any commands.
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well unfortunetly it seems girls where i live are very shallow and i should of learned that after my ex cuz she also used me and cheated on me for her ex ex boyfriends best friend
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sometimes circles of friends get smaller and smaller. That's just kinda life, you have to learn to not be so open sometimes with things like finances.
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my financial situation i dont talk to any one about but im willing to help a friend in need
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where are you looking to meet girls? this could be a reason in which things are happening...
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i stopped looking lol... i used to online and at school but i stopped looking
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i know online is'nt a good place to or at school
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im not the best with girls i can be but i can some times get very shy.
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how old are you? me being 33 have just found someone who hasnt treated me like s*it.. i have always been cheated on.. went through ten years of domestic violence, ect... so youre not alone in your searching... i have to say... after my last relationship.. i did give up... i figured that it wasnt worth all the heart aches and mind games in which i was going through... i gave up on men completely... i figured that i would let him find me.... and it did happen... he found me... and i could not ask for anyone better... i know.. its hard to be alone thinking that there must be something wrong with us... but.. as i said.. let her find you...
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im only 18 but i've been told that i look and act like im much older because in a way i am its a long story but the sum of it i never had my mother there to give me support and love and i dont know my dad and i've had to raise my self and i had to learn to over come dyslexia
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i've been told that im about 24-25
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you are only 18.... you are just starting life... wish i could go back and be 18 again... i would be a kid and enjoy being free.... i rushed life.. got pregnant at 16,18 and 20... i lost my childhood... (not complaining because i would never change my children) but... you are just begining your life... youre at that age of just growing up... and i know you dont want to hear it.. but... at that age... all you are going to get are broken hearts and stuff... unless you are really really lucky because everyone at that age.. exception of a few... are out to live life and not wanting to be strapped down...
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i know you mean good by telling me that im young but i dont feel it i did'nt have a child hood from age 10-18 so what i want from life is a job and some one to care for
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i know... i understand.. i grew up into adult hood from 9 .. i didnt have a child hood either... i actually couldnt handle living at home because of having to be the adult while my mother played nintendo all day.. while i had to be the mom... raising the kids, doing the house work.. ect... so i know where you are comming from... trust me.. i moved out when i turned 16... it is tough because we had to grow up so fast.. and we have made it to that part in our lives in which we are ready to settle for that one special person... but i have found that even though i was ready... others have never had the expierences that i have had... and so it was them that wasnt ready to settle down... it wasnt what i was doing or how i felt.. it had to do with the others havin the "perfect" lives and not wanting to grow up yet... or not having to yet...
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well, i wish you luck... keep your chin up... im heading out for a bit.. ttyl.
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I am sorry to hear you have been let down again by someone. She sounds like she really wasn't worth your time and energy to begin with if she is smiling sweetly and then taking money from you. She has shown you who she is. Forget about her... as lil_bit_shi mentioned this girl is just another player. lil_bit_shi also made a good point of asking where you meet these kind of girls. Don't go back there wherever it is! You deserve someone who will return your thoughtfulness. I think its great that you have goals... that you are planning for your future. Ambition can be attractive to many women. Most people I know, both men and women, seem to admire others who don't set limits on themselves and are postive about life and its experiences. You mention you would like to have a job and someone to care for (well, hopefully it will be mutual and a someone that cares for you as much!) :) I also think we meet a lot of doosies on the path to our hopes and dreams in life. Wow! I know I have. Sometimes it takes changing your setting or getting involved in something where you know you might meet another person who shares similar goals and interests. I've met people in classes, (language or outdoor adventure where we have to team up and work together), clubs (book, art, outdoor adventure), through volunteering my services (environmental clean up), and even set aside some money and travel abroad. By doing this you are showing a potential interest you are interested in life's challenges and making changes for the better. You are showing someone you can take charge and that you are curious about solving problems ...also that you are introspective and working on educating yourself. Broaden your horizons and get away from the tiny shell of a town where everyone already knows about everyone's business. Get ahead of your game and go for it. Find activities or adventures that build you up and then bring your positive experiences to a new friendship ...or relationship. Sometimes a foreign language class, a hiking class or something were people may have to rely on someone else can be a great place to meet a companion. You deserve happiness!