Well, recently we haven’t been getting along to well and she told me she didn’t want to be friends anymore. (immature, right?) The thing is, she has cause me so much pain prior to this. Should I just let the friendship go or can I tell her how much pain and trouble she’s given me?
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let it go!!
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You should be able to forgive your friend so you can move on and see a future with possibilities. Suggestion: telling your ex-friend that you appreciate the good times and have learned from the bad times and wish her the best in her future.
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let it go the past is the past ( to some occations, i think diferently) main thing is to let go
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I think you have to find closure for yourself, that might mean telling the ex-friend how you feel regardless of whether or not they want to hear it and then you have to let it go, there's nothing you can do to change it. The fact of the matter is this person was not a true and real friend. I've had that happen to me and yes, it hurts, sucks and makes me a little angry, but that's just how it is.
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If a relationship costs you a lot of energy and gives you little in return, plus it's not giving her enough in return to keep it, you are both better without it. It may make you feel better to have some kind of closure. Telling her what she has basically done wrong would probably end up costing you even more energy and hurting her without producing anything usefull at this point, however. If you do want her to know, either state it extremely positive and constructive, or wait a while until things have cooled down a bit. Talking to her in a year or two would probably be easier and make her listen better. But do whatever you need to do.
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Thats basically what im going through and we def could help each other.....I just wonder how people can just let you go and have no remorse and no feelings about lettin you go.....Words are 4eva and i just do NOT understand ppl's mental........but i feel if you keep taking her back she is going to feel like she is wining, now she has your POWER, take it back..
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If a relationship with a boyfriend/girlfriend isnt going well we break up, sometimes friendships dont go well either, but sometimes we try and try and try to fix things. We can outgrow people. I would just let this friend go, but if it was me, I would tell her all the things she has done to upset me first... likely she will also tell you the same. This is good, because then both of you know the annoying things you do, and need to watch out for with your enxt new friend.
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it will end up hurting you more in the end if you hang on
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i would go with glicher2's advice. i had a friend who told me the same thing. it is immature but thats because she didnt know how to handle the situation and she thought saying that would make it alot easier than takling it out with me. i let go of the friendship because i thought about what glicher2 said....and you were right glicher2. GOOD ADVICE ! GO WITH IT.
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thanks a ton Anonymous# :)
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If you think of what the future with this friend is like, is it good or bad? Think about it, and you should be able to come up with something. If you really want to stay friends with her, maybe you should try to talk to her.