I met thisguy from another school, who really likes me, but hes a junior. He wnats to make-out and be friends with benefits. I really like him but idk if I’m ready to lie to my parents, and take that step. What should I do?
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Dont do it. Im going to be very blunt. Of course he wants that, he's a guy in high school. Dont go down that road. Ive been there, its not an easy or even pretty one. Never do something you are not ready for! Ever! You will be much happier and have a lot fewer regrets.
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... Get some common sense? What about the actions you're considering strikes you as an intelligent?
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Exactlly! Im not ready, or am I, could this relationship be for real?
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If you have to question it at all, even the tiniest bit you are Not ready. It it wrong and you should never have to lie about anything anyways. Dont go there, your parents wont trust you, you will become a lier. And a guy asking a girl 3 yaers younger than her to be friends with benifits is Not a relationship. Its a guy wanting some ***. Even if you think he's different, I promise, he's probably not. Ive been there. You will be more respected and looked up to if you say no.
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K- Thank you, You're right Im gonna tell him I just want to friends thats all. I have a good reputation and I dont want that to change over some guy. I just dont want to be thought of as prude, but d rather be prude than a slut. Thnkx!
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Your welcome. Im glad your going to say no. And people wont think of you like that, they will respect you. And just a story of advice. Im a sophmore in college and when I was in high school there was this girl that always said she wouldnt do anything like that and she wanted to be a virgin until she was married. people gave her a little grief about it every now and then but come her junior/senior year everyone respected her so much for going against what other girls where doing. People LoVED her because of that! Good Luck