all i think about is him but he is older, so, he makes all those think he love, he works but me…i am at school and cause all this free time all i think about is him.i m seek and tired to be the first who calls or sens sms and i have also a big test at the end of the year, course i can not learn.what should i do so he would be more interested?hellllllllllp.pusi. i’m (email removed)
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In my opinoin, older men are never good for young wemon. I have dated 2 men the were older than me. The first one was 19 and I was 14, The other was 35 and I was 15. Even though I always thought myself to be strong, and not easy to influance, I look back now and see the way I was minipulated by the men I thought Loved me. My advice is to stay in school and focus on that. Be loyal to only yourself. :)smile
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men who love you will chance you. They will call you, they will make time for you. You can't do anything to make someone like you more. Just be yourself and focus on your life and if he is interested it will seek you out
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Anon, I disagree, men who don't respect themselves will chase you. It is hurtful for a guy to have to case someone who he is all ready with. Most guys I know would just up and leave in that case. As far as trying to get more attention from him, try talking to him about it.
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Age is of course a factor often. I don't mean to be offensive but if you are 15 and your guy is 35, he's just plain SICK, and you need to run from him very fast. For any person, man or woman to take care of themself, before thinking of another is not always a bad thing. You probably would not be all that attracted to a smelly slob. Men that work, do so to provide nice things to themself and their loved ones. In many cases, work is not something they choose to do... it's something they HAVE to do. For the man with his own business, and loves what he's doing, well yes, there is a passion there, and lines do get a bit blurry. I'm not saying that workaholics are a good thing, they aren't and clearly can be detrimental to a relationship... but not having any money in the relationship eventually get pretty old too! Money, (or the fights about money) is the number one reason relationships end. And right now, your part of the world is changing dramatically... it's very difficult, and one of the main reasons men are dying of drink. If he is providing for you, (without drinking) you need to be grateful for that; because I know it's not easy. My advise... Dana... talk to your man. Tell him you have emotional needs that only he can fill. Not just sex, but you need him to hold you. Try coming home on time or better early on one day a week. Also... Dana, your man will be tired after work... give him some time to rest, then make sure you do what you need to do get what you want. You say he takes care of himself... well you must take care of yourself too! rhushoe? Bright blessings~ Richard