my gf may be pregnant, about 2 weeks. we are scared out of our minds, being 17, her parents dont know about us even having sex. i just want some advice… please… what should we do? were thinking of abortion, but i think shes scared…
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hey ur not alone, my girl may be too, we r scared too, my girls 17 an im 18, we dont know if she is and have been knowing that there might be a kid since late NOV. still we dont know, it sucks. how long have u guys been goin out, yea times like these abortions seem like the best way....unfortianitly, mygirl wont get one, so if she is pregnant then i guess i will have a kid, i had alot of time to think about my life, i would man up and work my *** off to support my kid and my girl, and somtime marry her, yea but i dont know, u guys should look at every option, really think bout it but untill u know for sure dont stress about it cuz it will hurt ur relationship u know best of luck...keep me posted
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wow... thank you so much... i will keep my options open. i was thinking of proposing to her near easter time... it just seems like the right path to go, even if she gets an abortion. thanks Christopher
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yea thats coo, how long u guys been together? this will make or break a relationship, its really hard, for us its starting to go south, shes mad at me and says she will have a abortion, i say it her call, i will stand by her no matter what, but if she gets a abortion then i think that she will hate me, i told her that i will take care of it, i feel like any way this goes that it wont go good for me, ether she aborts and hates me, or she has it...i dont know what shes thinkin any more, but i have to keep my head up, ur girl sounds really cool and understanding.. hold on to her take it eazy Mage peace
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First of all, take a test. That way you know if she's really pregnant before you freak out. If she is, it's a hard choice to make, but one that should be made as quickly as possible. Abortion procedures become more expensive and more dangerous the later in pregnancy they occur. Early on, she should be eligible to take the abortion pill- that way she won't have to go in for an actual procedure. Basically, she will expell the embryo just like a normal but heavy period. BUT YOU HAVE A VERY SHORT AMOUNT OF TIME TO DO THIS. After seven weeks, the option is void. If you think she got pregnant two weeks ago, that means she would be four weeks along. Remember this. At your age, I would recommend either abortion or adoption, but ultimately, it's up to you guys. Enjoy your teen years while you can, because they will never come back. Being a good parent means giving up most of your young person activities- so be prepared that if she chooses to carry the pregnancy to term, you will be giving up a lot. Good luck.
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post/120172-sometimes-i-hate-myself#reply-3320171 could you relate to this person?
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To the prior poster, abortion is a personal decision, NOT a political, religious, or even a moral one. This is the real world, and the real world has REAL problems. YOU ARE NO PERFECT SOLUTIONS FOR IMPERFECT PROBLEMS. Sometimes, in cases like this, abortion is the only way out. Any other way results in a real, live person. I'm not saying it's right or wrong, I'm saying it REAL. You have to accept that problems like this are not going to go away on their own, and as they say, desperate times call for desperate measures. Oh yeah, and leave jesus out of it.
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Imullen, if you were directing your comments to us we would like to remind you that we were not the poster. We are all here to help the posters NOT to critique the helpers. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and their is no law stating everyone must obey yours.