…where do I find some self esteem?
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inside yourself
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inside yourself is the right answer most defentily but also put yourself around others that make you happy. i was the least confident chick ever then i started goin to church and hanging out with some really awesome people now i dont think twice with what i do.
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Your looking at the not so great things about you, we all have that (Im short, a loner, ect..) Its easy to see, but the there are always good things in us just gotta look around. Like someone said "First love yourself, then you can share the love" We humans are a mixure of emotions and desires, It wiil always make us feel good bad sad mad, its just how you look at it.
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You seem to mostly hate your body/looks. What about yourself do you think people would love if you looked any other way? If you had the beauty that would make people want to approach you and be your friend, what would they learn about your personality that would make them want to stay your friend? That's the part of you that you should learn to cherish. That's where your self-esteem is. As for getting a job, that's hard for a lot of people right now. I know it is really tough to not be working, but it is not necessarily a reflection of you as much as a reflection of the current state of the job market in your region. Until you get a job, focus on the things you love to do. If you walk in to a business to apply for a job and you look like you've been enjoying your day, managers will be drawn to you and it will move you higher on their list. I don't know what to do about hating where you live unless you want to move. :)
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food is supposed to make you feel good. You've realized that it's not, so stop. look in the mirror and say to yourself outloud...do I like me or could I do better?
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oka well maybe try to do things that will make you feeel good I think work out a little bit,, and eat healthy do physical activities that you enjoy. Maybe even do them with friends! I hope my advice helps