I’m 18 and still in high school and he is 21 and 2 hours away in college. He and I have known each other for about 7 years now and have become pretty good friends. Whenever he comes home he makes sure he calls me and we hang out. Last time he was home he and I went to a movie and hung out under the stars. We even kissed. We both decided that he and i would never work because of the distance and the situation. See, he started out as my older brother’s friend and then he and I started hanging out. I love his company and always feel wonderful after I talk to him. He likes pot and drinking and the like and works 3 jobs while going to school full time. I am the honor roll, “good girl.” I went and visited him last weekend at the bar he works at and it just made me realize how much I like him. We both are attracted to each other but the timing will never be right (maybe?). Is there anything I can do?
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It's only 2hours away, I really think you should go for it.
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close your eyes what do you see
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how much more do you need to know about him 7 yars ? drinks smokes pot hmmmmm?
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He is a total jack *** to most people and comes of arrogant as hell. The only thing is he is so sweet to such a select people. He only lets a few in. I am lucky to be one.
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what do you think he wants from you ??
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if you were` my daughter I would say no move on look for the real heart of life
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He really does care about me, i know that because of how kindly he has treated me. He has NEVER hurt me in any way. I think that maybe he is afraid he'd ruin me, thats why he doesn't want to make it a relationship. Well, that and my whole knows him and would go after him if he broke my heart.
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Give it a bit more time.
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its just he'll be out of college next year and probably in an apartment in the cities and then I'll be almost 3 hours away at my college. ugh!!!
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but you are not so you need to look deep into your own heart and make that desision for your self love is as easy as that pain, ,satisfaction , peace , trust . good bad and ugly ........ HEART
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Well, you'll be just going into college, and people tend to party, you may not want to be in a relationship during college.
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and your point hmmmmm
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Were you referring to me Paul?
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yes believe in somthing anything I was in college and owned the house that five frat brothers lived in and was married it works just let it . 26 years with the same woman till54 days ago
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heart that is all you need
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Is English your first language? Also, I think you should learn to use commas...
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ok is this about me now
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Nope
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haha
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I am fouty years old ,,,three beautifl daughters ,,, retired,,, and raise the girls on my own ,,,lost my wife 54 days ago to cancer,,,
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OOOoooooooh, look who felt the need to assert they are a better person then me? Feeling a lil sensitive Anon? I'm sorry to hear of your loss Paul.
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not a day goes` by that I do not ,,,but this not about me rite now ,,,, a person asked a? can we just go back to that ,,,,,and thank you alll,,,,,,,
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Just follow your heart ok
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you may get hurt but that is life ,,,so just live it ,,,,and do your best to be good to every one
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using enough ,,,, s for you know
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ok, thank you
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just be good to your self please
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and there are no Bad Ideas just like there are no stupid questions it's life live it love it and make the best of it you can . You only get one shot
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i am in a long distance relationship. cars, buses, cellphones and computers. we know it is just us and no one else. when we see eachother it is special. some people have a different experience. some people are polyamorous. some people need to see you everyday. both have to want the same thing.
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I would not recommend getting involved with him.
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As to the person he is, I don't know so I will not pass judgement. Long-distance relationships are very hard. The first thing you have to think of is how much you trust the other person. If you do not trust them completely things can get strained, i.e. when he hangs out with another girl you might begin to feel he is cheating on you. Secondly, and it seems that you wouldn't have a problem with this, is visiting him. I would personally recommend visiting him at least once every other month... You only live two hours away so it would not be that difficult. I know that long distance relationships can work if both parties are willing to pursue it. I myself was in a long-distance relationship for over two years with my girlfriend after she moved to Hawaii. So I know they CAN work out. Good luck!
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2 hours isnt that long but if your still in highschool it could be a problem. the best thing i can tell you is do what makes you happy, if you are sure that he likes you as much as you seem to like him then go for it. the only other thing i could see is that when friends become more than friends it can be hard on the firnedship if it doesntwork out.