there was this guy. lets just call him jake. then theres me. my best friend in the whole world who we will call lisa. and my other best friend who we will call kelsy. so i was head over heals, knock your sox off in love with jake. i told me two best friends of course lisa and kelsy. its was a wednesday and the school dance was coming up and i really wanted him to ask me. now my friend kelsy was quite a flirtacious person. i found out jack and kelsy had P.E. together which really got to me. I asked her to lay off a little and she sed no problem, tomorrow i will tell him i have a boyfriend, I PROMISE. now lisa is just being a good friend throughout this whole thing. now you know how the story goes. jake asks kelsy to the dance and im heartbroken but okay. then she comes over to me. and tells me she doesnt want to say no now im done im in tears and i want to just slit my wrists and crawl in a corner. she hasnt given him an answer. at the end of our last two periods i tell her….kelsy if you say yes to him. im sorry but i will never forgive you. so surprise surprise….she sed yes. its been 2 weeks now and every day it gets worst. all of kelsy’s friends hate her because she is a total brat whenever jake is around which is all the time. she told me about two days ago she promised she would break up with him because she felt bad. because im such a great friend, i told her to make a list of all the pros and cons of breaking up with him. she had one pro….i wouldnt be mad anymore, she had about 30 cons and my personal favorite..ill ruin my reputation. every single con was about what other people thought oh and of course she didnt tell me this she told lisa. i still love him. i hate her. help :[
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Do not allow your feelings for this guy ruin your friendship. Just try to be happy for your friend and understand her more, cos thats what bestfriends are for, soon she will realize what she did to you.
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i can't really say anything for sure as i don't know all the details of the situation, but if you ask me "kelsy" sounds like a terrible friend. i know best friends are very hard to find but that doesn't mean you should keep one that would treat you like this... i personally would NEVER do that to a friend (and i've had more than one opportunity), and i know that no close friend of mine would do it either. things would be different if she showed some form of remorse but it sounds like she only feels bad because you're still upset (and she's let this go on for two weeks already!) i'm not at all saying you should hate her, but i think you should stay away from her and let time heal things... when she and the guy break up (which by the way you shouldn't try to force her into doing) you can become good friends with him and take it from there. but yeah, kelsy sounds like trouble to me...it really sounds as though she doesn't value your friendship. i think you deserve better... best of luck with everything :)
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Shes a bit of a selfish ***** really 2 put it bluntly. shes not worth ur friendship and ur 2 gud 4 her. As 4 this Jake, make him notice u (not by any embarrising means!!!) make an effort and go out of ur way 2 make him fall in love wid u or just tell him ur fellings 4 him. Go 4 it n follow ur heart gud luk girl !!
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I know this seems like a big deal now...but believe me...move on. While you are focusing on Jake...who you are not supposed to be with...you are most likely missing out on a whole bunch of opportunities that are right in front of you...wipe the jake crust out of your eyes...tell your friend to grow up...and look for a new opportunities!
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thats really gud advice !! listen to this 1 !!