he invited me at the last minute and of course how can i prepare myself on that time range. then this morning when we talked over the phone he totally said if i’ll call he will not answer the phone but if his parents/sister will phone he will answer them. and i’ve heard that they will go there in pairs so that means he’ll have a partner too. i’m totally freaking out with that idea. and then he said with regards to our relationship we have to take things easily. ?????
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SOUNDS LIKE HE HAS PLANS THAT DONT INCLUDE YOU IN THEM.. MEANING THAT IT SOUNDS AS THOUGH HE IS MAKING HIMSELF FEEL BETTER BY TELLING YOU WHAT HE IS SO THAT HE DONT FEEL GUILTY FOR WHAT IS ABOUT TO HAPPEN
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LIKE HE IS MAKING UP RULES AND STUFF SO THAT HE DONT FEEL GUILTY FOR WHAT IS ABOUT TO HAPPEN
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meaning?
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IT MEANS THAT IF HE COMES UP WITH REASONS SUCH AS TAKING YOUR RELATIONSHIP EASIER AND NOT INVITING YOU.. AND NOT ANSWERING HIS PHONE FOR ANYONE OTHER THAN HIS FAMILY.. IT SOUNDS AS THOUGH HE IS TRYING TO HIDE SOMETHING FOR ONE.. AND FOR ANOTHER.. THE LINES HE IS USING IS MAKING IT SEEM OK IN HIS OWN MIND THAT WHAT HE IS ABOUT TO DO WILL BE OK... SO THERE WONT BE ANY GUILT ON HIS SHOULDERS BY TELLING YOU SUCH THINGS
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i thought so too. i'm starting to have this speculation that he's seeing another girl.
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and that girl will be with them.
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YUPPERS.. HE TOLD YOU WHAT HE DID.. SO THAT HE WOULDNT FEEL GUILTY. ITS A STRATEGY ON HIS PART. NOT REALIZING HOW MUCH IT IS KILLING YOU INSIDE.. AND OBVIOUSLY NOT CARING AT THE MOMENT.
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what would i do best? i'm not ready for b word yet. i wanted to show him that i'm happy with myself.
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YOU NEED TO THINK ABOUT YOURSELF FIRST. IF HE IS CHEATING.. THAT MEANS THAT HE REALLY DOESNT LOVE YOU. IS HE CLOSE BY TO WHERE YOU COULD POSSIBLY CHECK UP ON HIM?
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close quite a bit but i'm not the "checky" thing type. i'm not good on that.
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THEN YOU WOULD NEVER KNOW.. YOU HAVE A 50% CHANCE.. EITHER HE IS CHEATING OR HE IS BEING FAITHFUL. YOU WERE INVITED AT THE LAST SECOND RIGHT? SO.. PACK SOME THINGS.. AND HIKE IT UP THERE AND SAY THAT YOU ARE FINALLY THERE.. THIS WILL GIVE YOU OPPORTUNITY TO EITHER SEE WHAT IS HAPPENING OR WHAT IS NOT... EITHER WAY.. YOU WILL KNOW THE TRUTH.
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FROM WHAT IT SOUNDS TO ME... HE HAS SOMEONE THERE THAT HE DOESNT WANT YOU TO MEET. JUST FROM MY OWN LIFE EXPIERENCES WITH CHEATERS. I GUESS THAT I AM A LITTLE DIFFERENT IN THE WAY THAT I THINK.. THE WAY THAT I AM WHEN IT COMES TO MY HEART.. I WOULD WANT TO KNOW.
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sigh...thanks!
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I KNOW THAT ITS HARD.. HOW LONG HAVE YOU TWO BEEN TOGETHER?
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DO YOU HAVE A MYSPACE ACCOUNT? IF YOU WANT.. YOU COULD ADD ME.. AND TALK TO ME ON THERE. BUT ITS UP TO YOU.
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about a year.
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AND HOW OLD ARE YOU
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no accnt in there
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OH.. DO YOU HAVE AN MSN MESSENGER?
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why? that counts?
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HUH? NAH.. I WAS JUST SAYING IF YOU WANTED TO TALK.. I HAVE A MESSENGER SO ITS EASIER
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mid 20's
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YOU ARE STILL YOUNG.. HAS HE EVER DONE THIS KIND OF THING TO YOU BEFORE?
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i think so.
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HE HAS? THAT IS NOT LOVE HUN. YOU CANT HURT SOMEONE YOU LOVE.
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OR SHOULD I SAY.. LOVE DOESNT HURT
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oh i didn't get your question. i mean not with me but with another girl before me.
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LOVE DOESNT HURT.... OK.. BUT IN MY LIFE.. I HAVE LEARNED THAT ONCE A CHEATER.. ALWAYS A CHEATER. NO MATTER HOW MANY SORRIES. NO MATTER HOW MANY PROMISES.. THOSE ARE JUST TO PASS THE MOMENT UNTIL HE FEELS COMFORTABLE WITH KNOWING THAT YOU BELIEVE HIM.. THEN HE IS OFF TO DO IT AGAIN.
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should you say what? i don't have msn either. it's just today that i sit infront of the comp cos i'm usually busy with work.
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IF HE WAS ABLE TO DO IT WITH SOMEONE ELSE.. WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL THAT HE WONT DO IT TO YOU HUN?
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OH. OK. WELL I HAVE AN EMAIL IF YOU EVER WANT TO KEEP IN CONTACT WITH ME.. (email removed).. IM TAMMY BY THE WAY
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THAT LOVE DOESNT HURT IS WHAT I WAS TRYING TO WRITE BUT IT DIDNT SHOW UP ALL THE WAY FOR SOME REASON.
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LIL_BIT_SHIE (AT) HOTMAIL (DOT) COM.. SORRY.. HAD TO SPELL IT OUT BECAUSE IT WOULDNT GO THROUGH THE REGULAR WAY.. LOL
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MY NAME IS TAMMY
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okay. thanks again.
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YOURE WELCOME.. AND PLEASE.. THINK OF WHAT YOUR HEART IS TELLING YOU. DONT PLAY A FOOL AND NOT LISTEN TO IT. THINK OF WHAT HE DID TO HIS LAST GIRLFRIEND... AND REMEMBER.. THE SAYING ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER IS NOT JUST A STATEMENT.
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should i tell him of my speculation?
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this guy is wrong for you go for it.. you got good help from lil bit shi so i think your well on your way now do it!
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I HAVE ALWAYS SEEN FROM MY PAST THAT WHEN THE SPECULATION WAS BROUGHT FORTH... HE WOULD HIDE THAT ISSUE AND START WITH A NEW GIRL... IT IS NOT SOMETHING THAT HE IS GOING TO ADMIT TO YOU...
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thank God we're okay now.. i think i'm just being paranoid.
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you got a hold of him? what happened?
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JUST WONDERING HOW THINGS WENT FOR YOU.
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turns out that they were all guys and he doesn't want them to tease him if i'll call.