ever since i was in the fourth grade i’ve thought of myself as ugly and that i don’t really deserve much. i dont buy girly clothes because i feel as if i dont have a right to wear them or that if i put on makeup people will pity me for trying to be pretty. how can i build up my self esteem?
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Well, you may see yourself as "ugly" but others may see you very diffrently, Shes cute, hot, cool, pretty, ect... there are people out there who are really atracted to what you look like I bet you. There are somany personas out there. Often when a girl says shes ugly I ALWAYS find her pretty or cute or hot whatever. Point is I think Im not soo great but some people say otherwise. Another thing, someone once told me "beauty can fade, Its whats inside counts" and she makes a good point. The really good hearted people that we want in our lives care about who we are as a person not what color our hair is.
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some girls are physically perfect but they are not as attractive as girls who are plane and simple but who take care of themselves. proper hygiene would make the person look better than the rest. you don't have to wear clothes of latest fashion if you are not comfy about it. feel the clothes that you think would suit you. simple but clean clothes would do. make-up would not be as exciting as others think they are, a sheer lip gloss would make you more attractive than the thick lipstick.:) start small. and smile. i know of a lady who is not at all really physically beautiful but her charm and grace makes her a head turner. :) love yourself. each night, make a diary and write at least ten things that you like about yourself. read the pages every night. you are what you are and people will love you and accept you for everything that you are. remember, the world is not complete without you.god bless and take care.
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I know how you feel. I use to feel that way all throughout school. I never bought girly clothes or put on make up as I felt it looked out of place on me.. But the truth is, you deserve it as much as anyone else. Do what you want. Starting to buy these clothes you like regardless of what you think people will think of you is a good start.. You're just not use to seeing yourself that way. You'll soon realise that you look just fine in them too. Just like with everything else in life, don't deny what you like/want. Be who you want to be. When you know what you want, dive in and make it yours. You're bound to feel like you don't fit in at the start, but with practice, you will eventually. People will like you for who you are. Show them. Right now, they just can't see it. :) Oh, and lillies is right. :)
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As long as you love yourself on the inside your outside appearance doesnt matter. It's often for girls to find themselves ugly! Sometimes I look in the mirror and I'm like OMG what the heck !EW! But I still love the way I look no matter what anyone says to me. Trust me. . .I have many MANY flaws but I have a good self esteem because I hang around my type of people at school and when I'm around them it doesnt matter how good or bad I look. Just try to look at yourself in a better way. Its not as bad as it seems. Boys will find you attractive if you actually have love for yourself and you walk around with high self esteem. :) Hope I helped
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People have told me that i am pretty but i really can not seem to believe. I usually just think they say that because they know that with my body language especially, i have no confidence and that i do feel ugly about myself. And when i wear makeup, which recently has been all the time, i always feel as if im covering up who i really am, but i want to spare people to see me for who i really am. I have pakistani decent, so i have dark under eye cirles and i have some acne. Yesterday i was makeup less when we were heading to the beach, and i felt as if i didn't want the two boys to look at me, because they wouldn't like me anymore now that they saw me for who i really was. I really don't find myself pretty, and i wish i could.