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to end your marriage??
Was is trust issues?? Money issues?? Another woman (or man)??
Personality conflicts??
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My ex was physically abusive to me, he never hit the kids but they did see him hurt me many times.
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In my situation, I think it was a combonation of everything. At first the split was because he had an affair. But as the years have gone by and I have really thought hard about the marriage. It was because there was no respect in our marriage, no trust, no appreciation, and we took each other for granted. In addition, I didn't have respect and appreciation from his family either. I take responsibility for my part, because I am sure there are things that I could have done better. Standing up for myself for one, but then maybe it would have ended sooner....hummmmmm.
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my ex was physically abusive for over 4 years, and then when the physical abuse stopped, he mentally and emotionally abused me. i don't know which is worse....i just got sick of it, and left finally. i'm MUCH happier now, have more self confidence and am just so glad to be done with the situation. my kids will be better people for it....that's what i think.
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There was just no trust, he cheated on me several times.
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Mine was mostly mental abuse. He tried to physically abuse me a few times, but I stood up for myself. He was constantly telling me why my thougts on anything were wrong and why his was always right even in Sunday School class! Then there was the new next door neighbor where we built our dream house. She had a big boob job and couldn't seem to ever wear anything that would cover them up. She was always at my house leaning over on the counter in front of his face, bending over with her short shorts and thong straps high above her hips so everyone would know exactly what she wasn't wearing. He had zero respect for me and my boys knew it. They even knew it was wrong the way their dad treated me as compared to how he treated our neighbor. Unfortunately, I am still bitter over the whole situation eventhough I know the boys and I are much better off. I am more mad at myself for taking so much off of him and killing my self esteem.
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I endured 16 yrs of mental and emotional abuse. He was distrustful of me, jealous of everyone in my life, spied on me, followed me when I left the house, and made it impossible to have friends. He had a horrible temper, would throw tantrums and destroy stuff. He had a relentless need to spend money, our checking account was empty and credit lines maxed were out. Once I realized he couldn't make me homeless or take the kids from me I started fighting back - once I did that things went downhill fast, we were divorced within a year.
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The reasons for my divorce were trust issues, no appreciation, no respect. He did cheat on me during our marriage, but that is not what broke us up. He had no respect whatsoever for me. Always played mental/mind games with me. I was soo sick and tired of feeling like a failure.
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Mine was a combo- affairs, mental/emotional abuse. It started out by when I would eat supper at night he would "oink" at me every time I took a bite, he would put cyan pepper in my food (even though I'm allergic) to the point to where it was too hot to eat. He stayed at home and wouldn't work, I had to do it. Then the affair started (which I didn't know about until AFTER we separated). He played a RPG (role playing game) called World of Warcraft from 8am-12pm, 1pm-7pm, 7pm-2am......non stop, so I divorced him.