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I know that he didn't do it on purpose, and might have been trying to be nice. We were driving down the road adn there was this thin lady running. I commented that she looked great and I needed to do that. DH said "well after this baby is born i am getting your butt in shape and back to being small"
I know i just took it the wrong way but still. I am 5'8" and weighed 115 when we got married,(actually a bit too small for his liking) but that was 6 years ago and a few kids......lol, i weight 185 at my last apt I am going to be trying to get back to my little self, but shoot, to hear him say it just made me sad.
Gotta love these hormones!
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That WAS rude! Hormones or no hormones. He owes you. He needs to get HIS butt into the gym and eat right NOW so he has energy to be up w/this baby at night and also give you some time off during the day.
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He probably thought he was being supportive - it would have hurt my feelings too
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Men sometimes don't think before they think. Hopefully he didn't mean to hurt your feelings. If he was serious give him a kick in the shin and say "this is from Dee." How many children has he carried through pregnancy and delivered...none. Is he the same size he was when you met?
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My hubby makes comments like that once in a while and it hurts my feelings, too. ((((((((HUGS!)))))))))
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SO at first he made fun becuae you were too thin and now its becuase your arent thin enough. Geezzz- I think for more important thing he should be worried about. Like are you a loveing wife.
Im sorry he hurt you and Im sure he didnt think of it that way.
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I swear men don't know when to keep their traps shut. My DH used to do that all the time and after I let him have it he really doesn't do it anymore. He thought he was helping.
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thankfully my dh doesn't care about my size, he has never said anything really to me, he has made a joke before about it but it had come out completely wrong lol. and me and my mom and sister and aunts teased him mercilessly about making the joke and he never said anything again lol. he probably thought he was being supportive and trying to say hey i'll help you get into shape if ts what you want to do, but he could have said it better. and if tahts not what he meant then maybe he needs a little kick in the arse.
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I'm so sorry that your feeling were hurt. I know that I take a lot of things DH says about weight, and size personally, but frankly, I just don't think he thinks before he speaks. He probably didn't mean anything by it... me are just dense!
BUt if he didn mean something by it, you better believe he's gonna have a ton of mommies to fight off :D
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I read this post yesterday and something MY husband said today reminded me of it! I'm 8 1/2 months pregnant and feeling pretty gross right now! Anyway, we were leaving Target and my husband asks me, "Did you hear that conversation between that man and that woman?" I look over at this man and this woman who is wearing a short skirt and top (she's not perfect but she works out) and tell him, "No." And he tells me, "She was talking about giving birth to twins - can you believe that woman has had twins?"
I wasn't too upset but a little irked! Hell I don't look that good even when I'm NOT pregnant!
Anyway, I guess all husbands are allowed to say stupid things once in awhile! I know I've said a few myself before.