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Hi,
I am so glad I found this site. I am hoping to get some ideas on how to handle things as well as just knowing someone is there.
I am just in the beginning stages of divorce. However, with my I really don't know what to call him at this point, soon to be ex husband? Anyway, with his work schedule I have been a single mom 8 months of the year for the past 3 years. I received the phone call on Memorial Day that he "didn't think he loved me anymore". He did not like that I have control of everything, well again HELLO I am a single parent 8 months of the year and can not call him at work, I have to wait for him to call to discuss anything. He wants to go back in the Military, however we have a 3 year old that is Autistic and Military moving around etc. does not fit with his therapy and our sons needs. I guess he made his choice. Also, he does not like that we stay with my parents. I guess if he were the one to stay at home 8 months of the year and care for our son then he would also be very thankful to have my parents to help out. Guess he did not think about that.
Anyway, I know it's my first post and sorry to vent and throw it all out now.
Thanks for all the support I hope to get from this group!
Suz
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welcome to the board. sorry to hear about your situation. we are all here to help you thru this!!!
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Welcome to the board!! Big to you!!
What you are going through must be very difficult. There is plenty of support here. There is this forum "Divorced and Single Parents" as well as a Special Needs forum and a Military forum. I am sure you can find even more support there.
I am glad you have your parents to help you out. That is HUGE.
We are here for you!!
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I am so sorry. In a phone call? He will be failing his son so much. How can he be so selfish? Sounds like you will be better off, but yes, it will be challenging.
Yes, please do come join us over in Special Needs and tell us about you and your son. My son is an Aspie and TacomaRanch, the other mod there has an autistic son. We are all learning our way and are so thankful to have each other. As you can imagine, there are a few on here who have experienced divorce. I believe you will find some good, supportive women who can help you through this. Your own strength has always come from within.
Sending good vibes and prayers!
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Welcome to the boards, I'm sure you'll find lots of support and advice here. It sounds like you have a clear view to the path you know you need to stay on - good for you. Big hugs and best wishes, someone is always here anytime you need to vent.
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Welcome, this is a great group of ladies with lots of support. to you during this hard time.